Before you proceed to touch her heart, there are a few things you need to know.
She's been broken but love never died inside of her. If you are the right one, the one she's waiting for, you will awaken this love slowly, patiently. Let me tell you it isn't going to be easy but it is going to be worth it. Dare to win not only her heart but most of all, her love.
She's gullible and innocent in many different ways. May you appreciate and cherish this part of her but never take advantage of it.
She's a total bookworm. So when you hear her say something about a book she wants to read, get it for her and leave her a short message inside. She will look for it and will be disappointed if there isn't any.
She's an old soul. She likes anything artsy, old and cozy. Bring her to places with wonderful lamps or chandeliers or scented candles, low lighting and artistic, comfy chairs. Take her to theatres and watch plays with her no matter how boring you night find it. Take her to museums, to old buildings and churches made with stones or bricks with cobblestone paths and see how her eyes light up with excitement as she tries to relive the what-have-beens in ancient times.
She adores the beach. Take her there often and allow her to bask in the serenity of the sunset. Allow her to walk with you hand in hand and see the content and peace reflected in her eyes. Swim with her and observe just how happy she gets in the water even if she isn't the best swimmer.
She's not hard to please. Even the cheapest karinderia place with the lutong bahay food will make her happy. In fact, this is her comfort food. As long as you sit beside her when you eat, she's fine. On that note, remember to always sit beside her when you eat. She wants to be near you, your shoulders touching as you eat.
She loves heart-felt letters more than any material thing you can give her. Write her letters and mean it. For when she writes one for you, it is sealed with commitment and faithfulness. Do the same for her. And do not stop doing it.
Show the world how proud you are of her. Tell the world how much you love her.
She will love all the people you love dearly. And she will give importance to their approval and opinion. She takes the blessing and support of family seriously. She grew up a good girl and trained to be a people pleaser. So do not be annoyed when she's always worried about what others will say especially if it's family. She values her family so much and without hesitation, she will do the same for your family too.
When she gets jealous, assure her and remind her how much you love her. She needs constant reassurance and do not get tired of this. She is overly sensitive and she gets hurt easily. More often, this hurt comes out as anger when in fact, it isn't. When this happens, wrap her in your arms. Hug her tight. Insist even if she pushes you away at first. Wrap her around your arms and rub her back. Wipe away her tears and tell her it's okay. This is all she needs. This is all she will ever need - to know you will stay. No matter what.
Do not shout at her. You have no idea what trauma this causes her. If you do lose your temper, all it takes is one hug. If she isn't persuaded, persistence is key. Show her you are not leaving. This is all she will ever need.
I am begging you not to hurt her.
If you can't treat her the same way you treated her before having her, leave. Do not lead her on and eventually leave her hanging when she's already too committed to you for she will love you with everything that she's got. She will give you the world and you need not ask for it for she will give it willingly, completely. She will love you at your best and at your worst and she will never give up on you. So please do the same for her as well.
You will see her at her best too. Do not let her shine out. If it does and her worst appears right in front of you, embrace her imperfections. Just be there and assure her you're not leaving. Be patient with her. Support her and she will come out better than she's ever been.
More than anything, do not give up on her. No matter what. She may try to push you away but in her heart, this is not what she wants. Fight for her. Show her she is worthy enough to be fought for. Show her she is significant enough not to be given up on. Do not give up on her.
Your's sincerely,
Her
PS: She understands that this might be too much for you. But she also believes that if you truly love her, nothing is too much.
She's been broken but love never died inside of her. If you are the right one, the one she's waiting for, you will awaken this love slowly, patiently. Let me tell you it isn't going to be easy but it is going to be worth it. Dare to win not only her heart but most of all, her love.
She's gullible and innocent in many different ways. May you appreciate and cherish this part of her but never take advantage of it.
She's a total bookworm. So when you hear her say something about a book she wants to read, get it for her and leave her a short message inside. She will look for it and will be disappointed if there isn't any.
She's an old soul. She likes anything artsy, old and cozy. Bring her to places with wonderful lamps or chandeliers or scented candles, low lighting and artistic, comfy chairs. Take her to theatres and watch plays with her no matter how boring you night find it. Take her to museums, to old buildings and churches made with stones or bricks with cobblestone paths and see how her eyes light up with excitement as she tries to relive the what-have-beens in ancient times.
She adores the beach. Take her there often and allow her to bask in the serenity of the sunset. Allow her to walk with you hand in hand and see the content and peace reflected in her eyes. Swim with her and observe just how happy she gets in the water even if she isn't the best swimmer.
She's not hard to please. Even the cheapest karinderia place with the lutong bahay food will make her happy. In fact, this is her comfort food. As long as you sit beside her when you eat, she's fine. On that note, remember to always sit beside her when you eat. She wants to be near you, your shoulders touching as you eat.
She loves heart-felt letters more than any material thing you can give her. Write her letters and mean it. For when she writes one for you, it is sealed with commitment and faithfulness. Do the same for her. And do not stop doing it.
Show the world how proud you are of her. Tell the world how much you love her.
She will love all the people you love dearly. And she will give importance to their approval and opinion. She takes the blessing and support of family seriously. She grew up a good girl and trained to be a people pleaser. So do not be annoyed when she's always worried about what others will say especially if it's family. She values her family so much and without hesitation, she will do the same for your family too.
When she gets jealous, assure her and remind her how much you love her. She needs constant reassurance and do not get tired of this. She is overly sensitive and she gets hurt easily. More often, this hurt comes out as anger when in fact, it isn't. When this happens, wrap her in your arms. Hug her tight. Insist even if she pushes you away at first. Wrap her around your arms and rub her back. Wipe away her tears and tell her it's okay. This is all she needs. This is all she will ever need - to know you will stay. No matter what.
Do not shout at her. You have no idea what trauma this causes her. If you do lose your temper, all it takes is one hug. If she isn't persuaded, persistence is key. Show her you are not leaving. This is all she will ever need.
I am begging you not to hurt her.
If you can't treat her the same way you treated her before having her, leave. Do not lead her on and eventually leave her hanging when she's already too committed to you for she will love you with everything that she's got. She will give you the world and you need not ask for it for she will give it willingly, completely. She will love you at your best and at your worst and she will never give up on you. So please do the same for her as well.
You will see her at her best too. Do not let her shine out. If it does and her worst appears right in front of you, embrace her imperfections. Just be there and assure her you're not leaving. Be patient with her. Support her and she will come out better than she's ever been.
More than anything, do not give up on her. No matter what. She may try to push you away but in her heart, this is not what she wants. Fight for her. Show her she is worthy enough to be fought for. Show her she is significant enough not to be given up on. Do not give up on her.
Your's sincerely,
Her
PS: She understands that this might be too much for you. But she also believes that if you truly love her, nothing is too much.
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